I send out a summons - routine for me - not so routine for the recipient

A divorce begins when I send out a process server to deliver a summons to the other party. It seems so simple, so routine. But then again, it is more like the drop of a bomb to the other party. I try not to think into it too deeply. The purpose of a divorce is not to start a war. It is more about renewal and the start of a new life.